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rexe at 11:35pm on 29/03/2003
rexe at 11:35pm on 29/03/2003Got stuck in a downpour picking up little sister. GAve her my umbrella as we walked home which means I got soaked.
Had a huge fight was my Mum. She actually cursed me off. I'm proud of her for finally doing it.
The fight boiled down to this:
My father drives me to and from church every sunday which means he can't do anything from 9:30 till 2:30 which means that it hinders him from spending time with our whole family. Which he hardly spends time with because he's never home during the week and usally comes in the door after midnight.
So in other words I got the brunt of the attack and my dad went out somewhere. If I had know that everyone was so pissed off with me having my Dad drive me to and from church every weekend I'd try to do something about it.
But no one says anything and it boils up and I get screamed at.
Mother feels victimzed and drive yet another stake in my parents marriage it seems. The first being the whole 'Me going Aboard' deal.
Effect of fight:
I gave up my allowance. <- I don't have a job. I'm broke till I get extra money or turn to loan sharks
Gave up RMD - Was going to spend the night at someones house but that just put more fire to the hearth
Gave up going to church and seeing Spirtted Away tommorow - Was going to spend time with "surrogate family" (gilberts) and see Spirited Away again and have fun.
So in other words spent the ngiht watching The English Patient and realizing what a great movie it was.
All in all I'd rather reverse the effect of what happened.
Had a huge fight was my Mum. She actually cursed me off. I'm proud of her for finally doing it.
The fight boiled down to this:
My father drives me to and from church every sunday which means he can't do anything from 9:30 till 2:30 which means that it hinders him from spending time with our whole family. Which he hardly spends time with because he's never home during the week and usally comes in the door after midnight.
So in other words I got the brunt of the attack and my dad went out somewhere. If I had know that everyone was so pissed off with me having my Dad drive me to and from church every weekend I'd try to do something about it.
But no one says anything and it boils up and I get screamed at.
Mother feels victimzed and drive yet another stake in my parents marriage it seems. The first being the whole 'Me going Aboard' deal.
Effect of fight:
I gave up my allowance. <- I don't have a job. I'm broke till I get extra money or turn to loan sharks
Gave up RMD - Was going to spend the night at someones house but that just put more fire to the hearth
Gave up going to church and seeing Spirtted Away tommorow - Was going to spend time with "surrogate family" (gilberts) and see Spirited Away again and have fun.
So in other words spent the ngiht watching The English Patient and realizing what a great movie it was.
All in all I'd rather reverse the effect of what happened.
bitchy